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Today, Dr. Karen Sherman spoke about stress on Robin Hardy's show. The show aired 11:00PT/ 2:00ET. If you missed the show, be sure to listen online at www.BlogTalkRadio.com/Robin-Hardy. Also part of the conversation is another one of our regular contributors, Debbie Mandel.

In other news, Dr. Noelle Nelson in promotion of her new book, "Your Man is Wonderful," is running a contest. To enter, pick just one of her suggestions, put it into practice for a week in your life, and then share with us what happened. Submissions will be based on the follow criteria: originality 25%, attitude of contestant 25%, adherence to the contest theme & suggestions 25%, and the change that takes place by following the suggestions 25%. Every person who enters the “Toad to Prince” contest will receive a free PDF download of Dr. Noelle Nelson’s book "Everyday Miracles Vol. 1." The grand prize winner will receive a $1,000 travel voucher to use for a romantic getaway for 2 people. Visit, www.toadtoprince.com to enter.

Lastly, Dr. Trina Read sent me an interesting article the other day on male contreception from MSN. Click here to read the article. Dr. Read would like to add to this conversation and we'll have a podcast with her in the coming weeks speaking about this subject, so please check back often.

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Outdoor Lovin'

Are you looking to add some serious spice to your marriage? Check out this website called Outdoor Lovemap. It is what it sounds like, a map of places around the world to make love. Of course, you could get into legal trouble if you're in a spot you're not supposed to be in and this website doesn't seem like it takes any of that information into account. It's basically a user-generated map that grades sites on a five-star system of privacy, comfort and legality. Each site is also given a description of the location. Last month, the site cracked 100 locations. Click here to check out the map.

Labels: resource, romance, sex, technology, travel

Outdoor Lovin'

Are you looking to add some serious spice to your marriage? Check out this website called Outdoor Lovemap. It is what it sounds like, a map of places around the world to make love. Of course, you could get into legal trouble if you're in a spot you're not supposed to be in and this website doesn't seem like it takes any of that information into account. It's basically a user-generated map that grades sites on a five-star system of privacy, comfort and legality. Each site is also given a description of the location. Last month, the site cracked 100 locations. Click here to check out the map.

Labels: resource, romance, sex, technology, travel

Outdoor Lovin'

Are you looking to add some serious spice to your marriage? Check out this website called Outdoor Lovemap. It is what it sounds like, a map of places around the world to make love. Of course, you could get into legal trouble if you're in a spot you're not supposed to be in and this website doesn't seem like it takes any of that information into account. It's basically a user-generated map that grades sites on a five-star system of privacy, comfort and legality. Each site is also given a description of the location. Last month, the site cracked 100 locations. Click here to check out the map.

Labels: resource, romance, sex, technology, travel

10 Ways to be Happy in Marriage

Everyone has their tricks to maintaining a happy and successful marriage. The Seattle Times offers a list of 10 things you can do to be happy in marriage. Here are a couple fo highlights:

1. Talk about the important stuff. Most couples spend more time planning a vacation than they do planning for their relationship. Create a relationship vision by asking: "If we could have it exactly like we want, how would it be?"

2. Listen to the heart more than you listen to the words. Focusing on the words can lead to endless and meaningless debate: "No, that did not happen on Tuesday, it happened on Monday!"

3. Don't be a Darren Stevens. In the old sitcom "Bewitched," Samantha merely had to wiggle her nose to make incredible things happen. Darren was always trying to get her to stop using her magical powers.

Even as a little kid, I thought the guy was nuts. He could have had anything he wanted. Instead he tried to get Sam to stifle her gifts. Encourage your partner in her gifts.

4. Don't assume that just because you are married, you know how to be married. Pay attention to what works for other couples. Read all you can. Go to seminars. Find a coach. It's a lot less expensive than divorce, financially and emotionally.

We especially agree with that last item, which is why we exist. Tell your friends if they're looking for some good reading material, we're here to help.

Labels: advice, resource

10 Ways to be Happy in Marriage

Everyone has their tricks to maintaining a happy and successful marriage. The Seattle Times offers a list of 10 things you can do to be happy in marriage. Here are a couple fo highlights:

1. Talk about the important stuff. Most couples spend more time planning a vacation than they do planning for their relationship. Create a relationship vision by asking: "If we could have it exactly like we want, how would it be?"

2. Listen to the heart more than you listen to the words. Focusing on the words can lead to endless and meaningless debate: "No, that did not happen on Tuesday, it happened on Monday!"

3. Don't be a Darren Stevens. In the old sitcom "Bewitched," Samantha merely had to wiggle her nose to make incredible things happen. Darren was always trying to get her to stop using her magical powers.

Even as a little kid, I thought the guy was nuts. He could have had anything he wanted. Instead he tried to get Sam to stifle her gifts. Encourage your partner in her gifts.

4. Don't assume that just because you are married, you know how to be married. Pay attention to what works for other couples. Read all you can. Go to seminars. Find a coach. It's a lot less expensive than divorce, financially and emotionally.

We especially agree with that last item, which is why we exist. Tell your friends if they're looking for some good reading material, we're here to help.

Labels: advice, resource

10 Ways to be Happy in Marriage

Everyone has their tricks to maintaining a happy and successful marriage. The Seattle Times offers a list of 10 things you can do to be happy in marriage. Here are a couple fo highlights:

1. Talk about the important stuff. Most couples spend more time planning a vacation than they do planning for their relationship. Create a relationship vision by asking: "If we could have it exactly like we want, how would it be?"

2. Listen to the heart more than you listen to the words. Focusing on the words can lead to endless and meaningless debate: "No, that did not happen on Tuesday, it happened on Monday!"

3. Don't be a Darren Stevens. In the old sitcom "Bewitched," Samantha merely had to wiggle her nose to make incredible things happen. Darren was always trying to get her to stop using her magical powers.

Even as a little kid, I thought the guy was nuts. He could have had anything he wanted. Instead he tried to get Sam to stifle her gifts. Encourage your partner in her gifts.

4. Don't assume that just because you are married, you know how to be married. Pay attention to what works for other couples. Read all you can. Go to seminars. Find a coach. It's a lot less expensive than divorce, financially and emotionally.

We especially agree with that last item, which is why we exist. Tell your friends if they're looking for some good reading material, we're here to help.

Labels: advice, resource

HUD To the Rescue

If you're facing foreclosure and are located in any of the cities of Chicago, Detroit, Los Angeles, Miami, New York or Phoenix then the U.S. Housing and Urban Development government agency would like to offer free mortgage delinquency and default resolution counseling. The program was developed to help those who face losing their home. Their may be other options, the first is to call your local HUD agency at (877) HUD-1515 or visit www.hud.gov. So does their counseling work? A recent HUD study noted a 55 percent increase in the number of clients receiving foreclosure prevention counseling between 2006 and 2007. Of the approximately 136,000 families that completed this counseling during 2007, 45 percent were able to remain in their homes while 14 percent ultimately lost their home through foreclosure. That's a pretty good success rate and definitely worth a phone call. To read the complete release, click here.

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HUD To the Rescue

If you're facing foreclosure and are located in any of the cities of Chicago, Detroit, Los Angeles, Miami, New York or Phoenix then the U.S. Housing and Urban Development government agency would like to offer free mortgage delinquency and default resolution counseling. The program was developed to help those who face losing their home. Their may be other options, the first is to call your local HUD agency at (877) HUD-1515 or visit www.hud.gov. So does their counseling work? A recent HUD study noted a 55 percent increase in the number of clients receiving foreclosure prevention counseling between 2006 and 2007. Of the approximately 136,000 families that completed this counseling during 2007, 45 percent were able to remain in their homes while 14 percent ultimately lost their home through foreclosure. That's a pretty good success rate and definitely worth a phone call. To read the complete release, click here.

Labels: advice, government, housing, resource

HUD To the Rescue

If you're facing foreclosure and are located in any of the cities of Chicago, Detroit, Los Angeles, Miami, New York or Phoenix then the U.S. Housing and Urban Development government agency would like to offer free mortgage delinquency and default resolution counseling. The program was developed to help those who face losing their home. Their may be other options, the first is to call your local HUD agency at (877) HUD-1515 or visit www.hud.gov. So does their counseling work? A recent HUD study noted a 55 percent increase in the number of clients receiving foreclosure prevention counseling between 2006 and 2007. Of the approximately 136,000 families that completed this counseling during 2007, 45 percent were able to remain in their homes while 14 percent ultimately lost their home through foreclosure. That's a pretty good success rate and definitely worth a phone call. To read the complete release, click here.

Labels: advice, government, housing, resource

50 Best Romantic Getaways

Depending if you were one of the 50,000+ who recently got a pink slip this week, you may or may not want to get away. If you got a nice severance package and want to go someplace romantic, Travel + Leisure magazine offers their 50 best romantic getaways. Some of the locations include, Whidbey Island, Washington; Chassignolles, France; Granada, Spain; and Vico Equense, Italy. So how did these places make their list? Vico Equense, for example, they offer the following description: A crenellated castle, pink-washed clifftop church, and pebbled beach make Vico Equense perhaps the most dramatic—though surprisingly undiscovered—village on the Sorrento Coast.

Sounds like a great romantic getaway. Can you remember the most romantic place you and your spouse have ever been? Please share.

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50 Best Romantic Getaways

Depending if you were one of the 50,000+ who recently got a pink slip this week, you may or may not want to get away. If you got a nice severance package and want to go someplace romantic, Travel + Leisure magazine offers their 50 best romantic getaways. Some of the locations include, Whidbey Island, Washington; Chassignolles, France; Granada, Spain; and Vico Equense, Italy. So how did these places make their list? Vico Equense, for example, they offer the following description: A crenellated castle, pink-washed clifftop church, and pebbled beach make Vico Equense perhaps the most dramatic—though surprisingly undiscovered—village on the Sorrento Coast.

Sounds like a great romantic getaway. Can you remember the most romantic place you and your spouse have ever been? Please share.

Labels: resource, romance, travel

50 Best Romantic Getaways

Depending if you were one of the 50,000+ who recently got a pink slip this week, you may or may not want to get away. If you got a nice severance package and want to go someplace romantic, Travel + Leisure magazine offers their 50 best romantic getaways. Some of the locations include, Whidbey Island, Washington; Chassignolles, France; Granada, Spain; and Vico Equense, Italy. So how did these places make their list? Vico Equense, for example, they offer the following description: A crenellated castle, pink-washed clifftop church, and pebbled beach make Vico Equense perhaps the most dramatic—though surprisingly undiscovered—village on the Sorrento Coast.

Sounds like a great romantic getaway. Can you remember the most romantic place you and your spouse have ever been? Please share.

Labels: resource, romance, travel

Sex Toy Recycling Program

'Tis the season to be giving. The headline says just about says it all. If you dig a little deeper into the website (click here), they do mention how they appreciate recyclers to wash their toys before they turn them in. Here's what they say to do:

Place your clean toy into a Ziploc or similar bag and then pack it for shipping. Feel free to include your used batteries, as we recycle them as well. Then mail them to:

Dreamscapes Recycling Program
5450 Bruce B Downs Blvd #366
Wesley Chapel, FL 33544

If being green weren't enough, for every toy you turn in to be recycled, you will receive a $10 gift card to use at VibratorShopping.com as well free shipping on your next order. So be responsible and green with all those broken vibrators, dildos and other toys you don't use. 'Tis the season.

Labels: green, resource, sex

Sex Toy Recycling Program

'Tis the season to be giving. The headline says just about says it all. If you dig a little deeper into the website (click here), they do mention how they appreciate recyclers to wash their toys before they turn them in. Here's what they say to do:

Place your clean toy into a Ziploc or similar bag and then pack it for shipping. Feel free to include your used batteries, as we recycle them as well. Then mail them to:

Dreamscapes Recycling Program
5450 Bruce B Downs Blvd #366
Wesley Chapel, FL 33544

If being green weren't enough, for every toy you turn in to be recycled, you will receive a $10 gift card to use at VibratorShopping.com as well free shipping on your next order. So be responsible and green with all those broken vibrators, dildos and other toys you don't use. 'Tis the season.

Labels: green, resource, sex

Sex Toy Recycling Program

'Tis the season to be giving. The headline says just about says it all. If you dig a little deeper into the website (click here), they do mention how they appreciate recyclers to wash their toys before they turn them in. Here's what they say to do:

Place your clean toy into a Ziploc or similar bag and then pack it for shipping. Feel free to include your used batteries, as we recycle them as well. Then mail them to:

Dreamscapes Recycling Program
5450 Bruce B Downs Blvd #366
Wesley Chapel, FL 33544

If being green weren't enough, for every toy you turn in to be recycled, you will receive a $10 gift card to use at VibratorShopping.com as well free shipping on your next order. So be responsible and green with all those broken vibrators, dildos and other toys you don't use. 'Tis the season.

Labels: green, resource, sex

Marriage Classes in Alabama

If you're marriage needs a pick me up or just a tune-up, the Alabama Community Healthy Marriage Initiative has put together a county map for the state that lists workshops and marriage classes in each area. Click on the county you live in and you'll be redirected to a list of classes offered in your area. The most populous county in Alabama, Jefferson County, lists the following:

Wanda Davidson
Community Presbyterian Center
201 Church Ave.
Birmingham, AL 35242
205-791-2857

Scott Estes
Pathways Professional Counseling
2681 Rocky Ridge Lane
Birmingham, AL 35216
334-451-0804

Deborah Harris
Barbara Britt Pickens Counseling Center
2609 Drennen Place
Birmingham, AL 35242
205-515-4268

Mark Wadler
Jennifer Wilmoth
IMPACT Family Counseling
1000 24th Street South
Birmingham, AL 35205
205-916-0123

Ward Williams
Vinyard Family Services
4733 Valleydale Rd.
Birmingham, AL 35242
205-533-7853

If you're a marriage expert, counselor or marriage educator reading this, you can post your own workshops, classes, etc. on our Married Life network for free.

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Marriage Classes in Alabama

If you're marriage needs a pick me up or just a tune-up, the Alabama Community Healthy Marriage Initiative has put together a county map for the state that lists workshops and marriage classes in each area. Click on the county you live in and you'll be redirected to a list of classes offered in your area. The most populous county in Alabama, Jefferson County, lists the following:

Wanda Davidson
Community Presbyterian Center
201 Church Ave.
Birmingham, AL 35242
205-791-2857

Scott Estes
Pathways Professional Counseling
2681 Rocky Ridge Lane
Birmingham, AL 35216
334-451-0804

Deborah Harris
Barbara Britt Pickens Counseling Center
2609 Drennen Place
Birmingham, AL 35242
205-515-4268

Mark Wadler
Jennifer Wilmoth
IMPACT Family Counseling
1000 24th Street South
Birmingham, AL 35205
205-916-0123

Ward Williams
Vinyard Family Services
4733 Valleydale Rd.
Birmingham, AL 35242
205-533-7853

If you're a marriage expert, counselor or marriage educator reading this, you can post your own workshops, classes, etc. on our Married Life network for free.

Labels: resource

Marriage Classes in Alabama

If you're marriage needs a pick me up or just a tune-up, the Alabama Community Healthy Marriage Initiative has put together a county map for the state that lists workshops and marriage classes in each area. Click on the county you live in and you'll be redirected to a list of classes offered in your area. The most populous county in Alabama, Jefferson County, lists the following:

Wanda Davidson
Community Presbyterian Center
201 Church Ave.
Birmingham, AL 35242
205-791-2857

Scott Estes
Pathways Professional Counseling
2681 Rocky Ridge Lane
Birmingham, AL 35216
334-451-0804

Deborah Harris
Barbara Britt Pickens Counseling Center
2609 Drennen Place
Birmingham, AL 35242
205-515-4268

Mark Wadler
Jennifer Wilmoth
IMPACT Family Counseling
1000 24th Street South
Birmingham, AL 35205
205-916-0123

Ward Williams
Vinyard Family Services
4733 Valleydale Rd.
Birmingham, AL 35242
205-533-7853

If you're a marriage expert, counselor or marriage educator reading this, you can post your own workshops, classes, etc. on our Married Life network for free.

Labels: resource

Marriage and Prayer Survey

Paul Giblin at Loyola University Chicago is looking for participants for a study that explores how, when, where, and why married people pray. The study is conducted online and is held in confidential. The study asks: Besides praying in church and at meals, do you ever pray together or is it more usually alone? Do you have similar or different ways of praying? How do marriage and family life influence your prayer life? Has your prayer changed over the course of marriage and family life? To participate, please contact Dr. Giblin at 800-424-1238 or pgibli@luc.edu.

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Marriage and Prayer Survey

Paul Giblin at Loyola University Chicago is looking for participants for a study that explores how, when, where, and why married people pray. The study is conducted online and is held in confidential. The study asks: Besides praying in church and at meals, do you ever pray together or is it more usually alone? Do you have similar or different ways of praying? How do marriage and family life influence your prayer life? Has your prayer changed over the course of marriage and family life? To participate, please contact Dr. Giblin at 800-424-1238 or pgibli@luc.edu.

Labels: religion, resource, study

Marriage and Prayer Survey

Paul Giblin at Loyola University Chicago is looking for participants for a study that explores how, when, where, and why married people pray. The study is conducted online and is held in confidential. The study asks: Besides praying in church and at meals, do you ever pray together or is it more usually alone? Do you have similar or different ways of praying? How do marriage and family life influence your prayer life? Has your prayer changed over the course of marriage and family life? To participate, please contact Dr. Giblin at 800-424-1238 or pgibli@luc.edu.

Labels: religion, resource, study

Married Couples Still Healthiest

It's long been reported that married people are healthier than non-marrieds, but a new report says that the gap is closing. In the September issue of the Journal of Health and Social Behavior it "found that the self-reported health status of never-married adults increased significantly over time. At the same time, the self-reported health status of married women also increased, so the gap between married and never-married women's health stayed about the same. However, never-married men narrowed the health gap between themselves and married men." So why are married people healthier? There are two theories. One is that being married gives you more access to social support and economic resources. The other is that being divorced or widowed hurts health, according to this article from the Washington Post. For more information about the health effects of marriage, visit the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services.

Labels: health, resource, study

Married Couples Still Healthiest

It's long been reported that married people are healthier than non-marrieds, but a new report says that the gap is closing. In the September issue of the Journal of Health and Social Behavior it "found that the self-reported health status of never-married adults increased significantly over time. At the same time, the self-reported health status of married women also increased, so the gap between married and never-married women's health stayed about the same. However, never-married men narrowed the health gap between themselves and married men." So why are married people healthier? There are two theories. One is that being married gives you more access to social support and economic resources. The other is that being divorced or widowed hurts health, according to this article from the Washington Post. For more information about the health effects of marriage, visit the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services.

Labels: health, resource, study

Married Couples Still Healthiest

It's long been reported that married people are healthier than non-marrieds, but a new report says that the gap is closing. In the September issue of the Journal of Health and Social Behavior it "found that the self-reported health status of never-married adults increased significantly over time. At the same time, the self-reported health status of married women also increased, so the gap between married and never-married women's health stayed about the same. However, never-married men narrowed the health gap between themselves and married men." So why are married people healthier? There are two theories. One is that being married gives you more access to social support and economic resources. The other is that being divorced or widowed hurts health, according to this article from the Washington Post. For more information about the health effects of marriage, visit the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services.

Labels: health, resource, study

Mindfulness and the Art of Choice

Our very own Dr. Karen Sherman has a new book out titled, "Mindfulness and the Art of Choice: Transform Your Life." Dr. Sherman was recently featured on the Reader Views website, which offers a review of her book, a video overview of what you can get out of her book, an interview with Dr. Sherman, and you can listen to the audio interview with Dr. Sherman. Here's a brief snippet of their review of her book:

There are many books on the market that cover the same issues as Dr. Sherman, however, there isn’t one that is as concise and to the point as "Mindfulness and the Art of Choice" is. In less than 100 pages she helps the reader become aware of personal issues/reactions embedded in the memory. Within a few simple exercises we can change the feelings associated with the situation. At the same time we can move away from recreating those same feelings in another situation. It may sound like a difficult task, and it could be. However, Dr. Sherman simplifies everything for us through her explanations and exercises--to a point where "Mindfulness and the Art of Choice" becomes truly a self-help book.

If you weren't aware, Dr. Sherman is a regular guest on the Hitched Podcast and can also be found on the Hitched website here.

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Mindfulness and the Art of Choice

Our very own Dr. Karen Sherman has a new book out titled, "Mindfulness and the Art of Choice: Transform Your Life." Dr. Sherman was recently featured on the Reader Views website, which offers a review of her book, a video overview of what you can get out of her book, an interview with Dr. Sherman, and you can listen to the audio interview with Dr. Sherman. Here's a brief snippet of their review of her book:

There are many books on the market that cover the same issues as Dr. Sherman, however, there isn’t one that is as concise and to the point as "Mindfulness and the Art of Choice" is. In less than 100 pages she helps the reader become aware of personal issues/reactions embedded in the memory. Within a few simple exercises we can change the feelings associated with the situation. At the same time we can move away from recreating those same feelings in another situation. It may sound like a difficult task, and it could be. However, Dr. Sherman simplifies everything for us through her explanations and exercises--to a point where "Mindfulness and the Art of Choice" becomes truly a self-help book.

If you weren't aware, Dr. Sherman is a regular guest on the Hitched Podcast and can also be found on the Hitched website here.

Labels: advice, book, hitched, resource

Mindfulness and the Art of Choice

Our very own Dr. Karen Sherman has a new book out titled, "Mindfulness and the Art of Choice: Transform Your Life." Dr. Sherman was recently featured on the Reader Views website, which offers a review of her book, a video overview of what you can get out of her book, an interview with Dr. Sherman, and you can listen to the audio interview with Dr. Sherman. Here's a brief snippet of their review of her book:

There are many books on the market that cover the same issues as Dr. Sherman, however, there isn’t one that is as concise and to the point as "Mindfulness and the Art of Choice" is. In less than 100 pages she helps the reader become aware of personal issues/reactions embedded in the memory. Within a few simple exercises we can change the feelings associated with the situation. At the same time we can move away from recreating those same feelings in another situation. It may sound like a difficult task, and it could be. However, Dr. Sherman simplifies everything for us through her explanations and exercises--to a point where "Mindfulness and the Art of Choice" becomes truly a self-help book.

If you weren't aware, Dr. Sherman is a regular guest on the Hitched Podcast and can also be found on the Hitched website here.

Labels: advice, book, hitched, resource

Marriage Counseling Online

You thought eHarmony was just for people looking to hook up? Well, it used to be, but now they've added eHarmony Marriage, an online program to help couples work through their troubles. This article from The Christian Science Monitor says couples get started by filling out a 40-minute online questionnaire covering issues ranging from finances to housework, trust, family relationships, and spirituality. Each partner answers separately. Their responses generate a computer report outlining their strengths and weaknesses as a couple. Couples pay $150 for the program, which typically takes six to eight weeks to complete. This sounds like a good first step for couples to take if their marriage is in trouble, of course, after reading through our archives of articles! Les Parrott, who created the program says this computerized therapy isn't a replacement of face-to-face counseling, however. Is this something you'd consider?

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Marriage Counseling Online

You thought eHarmony was just for people looking to hook up? Well, it used to be, but now they've added eHarmony Marriage, an online program to help couples work through their troubles. This article from The Christian Science Monitor says couples get started by filling out a 40-minute online questionnaire covering issues ranging from finances to housework, trust, family relationships, and spirituality. Each partner answers separately. Their responses generate a computer report outlining their strengths and weaknesses as a couple. Couples pay $150 for the program, which typically takes six to eight weeks to complete. This sounds like a good first step for couples to take if their marriage is in trouble, of course, after reading through our archives of articles! Les Parrott, who created the program says this computerized therapy isn't a replacement of face-to-face counseling, however. Is this something you'd consider?

Labels: advice, resource

Marriage Counseling Online

You thought eHarmony was just for people looking to hook up? Well, it used to be, but now they've added eHarmony Marriage, an online program to help couples work through their troubles. This article from The Christian Science Monitor says couples get started by filling out a 40-minute online questionnaire covering issues ranging from finances to housework, trust, family relationships, and spirituality. Each partner answers separately. Their responses generate a computer report outlining their strengths and weaknesses as a couple. Couples pay $150 for the program, which typically takes six to eight weeks to complete. This sounds like a good first step for couples to take if their marriage is in trouble, of course, after reading through our archives of articles! Les Parrott, who created the program says this computerized therapy isn't a replacement of face-to-face counseling, however. Is this something you'd consider?

Labels: advice, resource

Green Resources

April 22nd is Earth Day, so there's understandably a lot of attention on green, like this post for example. Anyway, making a commitment to being green is more than a once a year thing. We thought it would be helpful to give you some resources that will help you think green all year long.

Treehugger.com
CNet Green Tech Blog
AutoBlog Green
The Lazy Environmentalist
City Hippy
Great Green Baby
EcoFabulous

Labels: green, holidays, resource

Green Resources

April 22nd is Earth Day, so there's understandably a lot of attention on green, like this post for example. Anyway, making a commitment to being green is more than a once a year thing. We thought it would be helpful to give you some resources that will help you think green all year long.

Treehugger.com
CNet Green Tech Blog
AutoBlog Green
The Lazy Environmentalist
City Hippy
Great Green Baby
EcoFabulous

Labels: green, holidays, resource

Green Resources

April 22nd is Earth Day, so there's understandably a lot of attention on green, like this post for example. Anyway, making a commitment to being green is more than a once a year thing. We thought it would be helpful to give you some resources that will help you think green all year long.

Treehugger.com
CNet Green Tech Blog
AutoBlog Green
The Lazy Environmentalist
City Hippy
Great Green Baby
EcoFabulous

Labels: green, holidays, resource

Interview with "Here Come the Newlyweds" host and more

We've added our podcast to Podcast Alley. Click here to access our Podcast Alley feed! This would also be a great time to mention that we interviewed the host of the new reality show "Here Come the Newlyweds," Pat Bullard. If you're not already a listener, now's is a great to to get started. If you'd prefer to listen through iTunes, go to our podcast page, click here and follow the instructions.

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Interview with "Here Come the Newlyweds" host and more

We've added our podcast to Podcast Alley. Click here to access our Podcast Alley feed! This would also be a great time to mention that we interviewed the host of the new reality show "Here Come the Newlyweds," Pat Bullard. If you're not already a listener, now's is a great to to get started. If you'd prefer to listen through iTunes, go to our podcast page, click here and follow the instructions.

Labels: real people, resource

Interview with "Here Come the Newlyweds" host and more

We've added our podcast to Podcast Alley. Click here to access our Podcast Alley feed! This would also be a great time to mention that we interviewed the host of the new reality show "Here Come the Newlyweds," Pat Bullard. If you're not already a listener, now's is a great to to get started. If you'd prefer to listen through iTunes, go to our podcast page, click here and follow the instructions.

Labels: real people, resource

Best Cities for Couples

Forbes.com has released their Best Cities for Couples, which is based on marriage and divorce rates for the 20- to 34-year-olds, the affordability of a starter home there, the area's income disparity and the availability of family counseling. The list is limited to the largest 40 metropolitan areas. No. 1 on their list is Dallas. For long-term couples, however, Salt Lake City, UT was tops with 885 married couples per 1,000 households, while Buffalo, NY was at the bottom with 573 married couples per 1,000 households. Indianapolis, IN had the highest rate of divorce, with 143 divorces per 1,000 households, New York City had the fewest divorces with 43.

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Best Cities for Couples

Forbes.com has released their Best Cities for Couples, which is based on marriage and divorce rates for the 20- to 34-year-olds, the affordability of a starter home there, the area's income disparity and the availability of family counseling. The list is limited to the largest 40 metropolitan areas. No. 1 on their list is Dallas. For long-term couples, however, Salt Lake City, UT was tops with 885 married couples per 1,000 households, while Buffalo, NY was at the bottom with 573 married couples per 1,000 households. Indianapolis, IN had the highest rate of divorce, with 143 divorces per 1,000 households, New York City had the fewest divorces with 43.

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Best Cities for Couples

Forbes.com has released their Best Cities for Couples, which is based on marriage and divorce rates for the 20- to 34-year-olds, the affordability of a starter home there, the area's income disparity and the availability of family counseling. The list is limited to the largest 40 metropolitan areas. No. 1 on their list is Dallas. For long-term couples, however, Salt Lake City, UT was tops with 885 married couples per 1,000 households, while Buffalo, NY was at the bottom with 573 married couples per 1,000 households. Indianapolis, IN had the highest rate of divorce, with 143 divorces per 1,000 households, New York City had the fewest divorces with 43.

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What do Women (and Men) Experience After an Abortion?

Today marks the 35th anniversary of the Roe v. Wade decision by the Supreme Court. NPR's Talk of the Nation program did a story without political chatter to hear what men and women had to say post-abortion--either directly for women or through the relationship for men. This show took a refreshing and often overlooked angle on the emotional experiences after the fact. You're probably thinking, I missed that show, so why are you telling us? Well, the NPR website is fully equipped and has the show in its entirety ready to be listened to. Click here.

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What do Women (and Men) Experience After an Abortion?

Today marks the 35th anniversary of the Roe v. Wade decision by the Supreme Court. NPR's Talk of the Nation program did a story without political chatter to hear what men and women had to say post-abortion--either directly for women or through the relationship for men. This show took a refreshing and often overlooked angle on the emotional experiences after the fact. You're probably thinking, I missed that show, so why are you telling us? Well, the NPR website is fully equipped and has the show in its entirety ready to be listened to. Click here.

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What do Women (and Men) Experience After an Abortion?

Today marks the 35th anniversary of the Roe v. Wade decision by the Supreme Court. NPR's Talk of the Nation program did a story without political chatter to hear what men and women had to say post-abortion--either directly for women or through the relationship for men. This show took a refreshing and often overlooked angle on the emotional experiences after the fact. You're probably thinking, I missed that show, so why are you telling us? Well, the NPR website is fully equipped and has the show in its entirety ready to be listened to. Click here.

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Put Some Broccoli On

It was something that you were always told to do. But few, if any, of us did. Researches have discovered that broccoli, among many other great things that vegetables do, can help reduce the redness and inflammation caused by sun damage and reduce the risk of skin cancer. In the journal Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, lead study author Dr. Paul Talalay said the extract of the broccoli sprout boosts the protective systems of the cell to counteract the damage caused by ultraviolet radiation. The extract showed a 37 percent reduction in redness and inflammation caused by UV rays and lasted days after the broccoli extract was washed away. It's suffice to mention the broccoli extract does not act as a sunscreen, which unlike sunscreen, the extract does not absorb UV light, and Talalay stresses that people not replace their sunscreen. Perhaps the two will marry into the ultimate sun protection for you and your spouse's skin.

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Put Some Broccoli On

It was something that you were always told to do. But few, if any, of us did. Researches have discovered that broccoli, among many other great things that vegetables do, can help reduce the redness and inflammation caused by sun damage and reduce the risk of skin cancer. In the journal Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, lead study author Dr. Paul Talalay said the extract of the broccoli sprout boosts the protective systems of the cell to counteract the damage caused by ultraviolet radiation. The extract showed a 37 percent reduction in redness and inflammation caused by UV rays and lasted days after the broccoli extract was washed away. It's suffice to mention the broccoli extract does not act as a sunscreen, which unlike sunscreen, the extract does not absorb UV light, and Talalay stresses that people not replace their sunscreen. Perhaps the two will marry into the ultimate sun protection for you and your spouse's skin.

Labels: advice, health, resource, study

Put Some Broccoli On

It was something that you were always told to do. But few, if any, of us did. Researches have discovered that broccoli, among many other great things that vegetables do, can help reduce the redness and inflammation caused by sun damage and reduce the risk of skin cancer. In the journal Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, lead study author Dr. Paul Talalay said the extract of the broccoli sprout boosts the protective systems of the cell to counteract the damage caused by ultraviolet radiation. The extract showed a 37 percent reduction in redness and inflammation caused by UV rays and lasted days after the broccoli extract was washed away. It's suffice to mention the broccoli extract does not act as a sunscreen, which unlike sunscreen, the extract does not absorb UV light, and Talalay stresses that people not replace their sunscreen. Perhaps the two will marry into the ultimate sun protection for you and your spouse's skin.

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Study Says Negativity In Marriage May Cause Heart Disease

It's time to get positive in your relationship. A new study, conducted by Roberto De Vogli, PhD and a researcher for the study, published in the Archives of Internal Medicine, says that couples and close friendships marked by negativity, such as conflict and adverse exchanges, boost the risk of heart disease. 9,011 British civil servants were asked to complete a questionnaire either between 1989 and 1990 or 1985 and 1988. They answered questions about up to four of their close personal relationships, but mostly about their primary relationship. De Vogli and other researchers suspect that people may mentally "replay" the negative interactions. "It can activate emotional responses, including depression or hostility," De Vogli says, in turn boosting heart disease risk. We at hitchedmag.com have strived to keep couples entertained, educated and inspired. Although studies like these aren't the most positive look at marriage, we feel it necessary to inform our readers, as well as offer tips and expert advice so they can make positive changes in their marriages and in life.

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Study Says Negativity In Marriage May Cause Heart Disease

It's time to get positive in your relationship. A new study, conducted by Roberto De Vogli, PhD and a researcher for the study, published in the Archives of Internal Medicine, says that couples and close friendships marked by negativity, such as conflict and adverse exchanges, boost the risk of heart disease. 9,011 British civil servants were asked to complete a questionnaire either between 1989 and 1990 or 1985 and 1988. They answered questions about up to four of their close personal relationships, but mostly about their primary relationship. De Vogli and other researchers suspect that people may mentally "replay" the negative interactions. "It can activate emotional responses, including depression or hostility," De Vogli says, in turn boosting heart disease risk. We at hitchedmag.com have strived to keep couples entertained, educated and inspired. Although studies like these aren't the most positive look at marriage, we feel it necessary to inform our readers, as well as offer tips and expert advice so they can make positive changes in their marriages and in life.

Labels: health, resource, study

Study Says Negativity In Marriage May Cause Heart Disease

It's time to get positive in your relationship. A new study, conducted by Roberto De Vogli, PhD and a researcher for the study, published in the Archives of Internal Medicine, says that couples and close friendships marked by negativity, such as conflict and adverse exchanges, boost the risk of heart disease. 9,011 British civil servants were asked to complete a questionnaire either between 1989 and 1990 or 1985 and 1988. They answered questions about up to four of their close personal relationships, but mostly about their primary relationship. De Vogli and other researchers suspect that people may mentally "replay" the negative interactions. "It can activate emotional responses, including depression or hostility," De Vogli says, in turn boosting heart disease risk. We at hitchedmag.com have strived to keep couples entertained, educated and inspired. Although studies like these aren't the most positive look at marriage, we feel it necessary to inform our readers, as well as offer tips and expert advice so they can make positive changes in their marriages and in life.

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Coming Clean With Your Partner

Ruth Hayden, author of "For Richer, Not Poorer: The Money Book for Couples" says that couples should always divulge their financial information to their partner, because the truth of the matter will always rear its head at the wrong time. In the book she reminds couples that, "You're more than money-there are so many more facets to a relationship. Plus, everyone has some kind of a downside. And money baggage is easier to deal with than others." For more click here

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Coming Clean With Your Partner

Ruth Hayden, author of "For Richer, Not Poorer: The Money Book for Couples" says that couples should always divulge their financial information to their partner, because the truth of the matter will always rear its head at the wrong time. In the book she reminds couples that, "You're more than money-there are so many more facets to a relationship. Plus, everyone has some kind of a downside. And money baggage is easier to deal with than others." For more click here

Labels: advice, money, resource

Coming Clean With Your Partner

Ruth Hayden, author of "For Richer, Not Poorer: The Money Book for Couples" says that couples should always divulge their financial information to their partner, because the truth of the matter will always rear its head at the wrong time. In the book she reminds couples that, "You're more than money-there are so many more facets to a relationship. Plus, everyone has some kind of a downside. And money baggage is easier to deal with than others." For more click here

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Tips Before Tying the Knot

At the University of Florida's Institute of Food and Agricultural Services, couples are taking steps to try and bolster healthy unions. The two day, six hour course titled "Before You Tie The Knot" looks to raise awareness of why some marriages last and some don't. The research-based program applies to all people of all backgrounds, which has been a problem in the past with other programs that are religion-based. What are your feelings on this? We'd like to know if you and your spouse have ever participated in something like this. Did it work? Do you wish you had participated? Discuss this and more on the message board here in our "Just Married" section.

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Tips Before Tying the Knot

At the University of Florida's Institute of Food and Agricultural Services, couples are taking steps to try and bolster healthy unions. The two day, six hour course titled "Before You Tie The Knot" looks to raise awareness of why some marriages last and some don't. The research-based program applies to all people of all backgrounds, which has been a problem in the past with other programs that are religion-based. What are your feelings on this? We'd like to know if you and your spouse have ever participated in something like this. Did it work? Do you wish you had participated? Discuss this and more on the message board here in our "Just Married" section.

Labels: advice, health, real people, resource

Tips Before Tying the Knot

At the University of Florida's Institute of Food and Agricultural Services, couples are taking steps to try and bolster healthy unions. The two day, six hour course titled "Before You Tie The Knot" looks to raise awareness of why some marriages last and some don't. The research-based program applies to all people of all backgrounds, which has been a problem in the past with other programs that are religion-based. What are your feelings on this? We'd like to know if you and your spouse have ever participated in something like this. Did it work? Do you wish you had participated? Discuss this and more on the message board here in our "Just Married" section.

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New Twist on Vacations

The tourism industry has a new niche. "Why just take a vacation, when you can change your life?" they tout. That's right! Instead of taking the ordinary "fly to your destination, get the hotel room and relax by the pool" concept, vacation planners are promoting more than relaxation, they are promising transformation with yoga and wellness-type itineraries for their customers. And why would you want to do this? The response: people want to have a life changing experience. And for married couples, it's a whole new way to connect with your partner, purveyors of the new vacation style attest. Marketing and research firm Ypartnership said its latest survey of affluent travelers showed 30 percent of respondents named yoga as their favorite spa program or service. Massage was the most popular with 65 percent. Well, duh. Regardless, next time you sit down and plan a getaway, think about the possibility of changing your life with your spouse. Just make sure you don't overextend your yoga posses and come home broken.

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New Twist on Vacations

The tourism industry has a new niche. "Why just take a vacation, when you can change your life?" they tout. That's right! Instead of taking the ordinary "fly to your destination, get the hotel room and relax by the pool" concept, vacation planners are promoting more than relaxation, they are promising transformation with yoga and wellness-type itineraries for their customers. And why would you want to do this? The response: people want to have a life changing experience. And for married couples, it's a whole new way to connect with your partner, purveyors of the new vacation style attest. Marketing and research firm Ypartnership said its latest survey of affluent travelers showed 30 percent of respondents named yoga as their favorite spa program or service. Massage was the most popular with 65 percent. Well, duh. Regardless, next time you sit down and plan a getaway, think about the possibility of changing your life with your spouse. Just make sure you don't overextend your yoga posses and come home broken.

Labels: advice, health, holidays, resource, travel

New Twist on Vacations

The tourism industry has a new niche. "Why just take a vacation, when you can change your life?" they tout. That's right! Instead of taking the ordinary "fly to your destination, get the hotel room and relax by the pool" concept, vacation planners are promoting more than relaxation, they are promising transformation with yoga and wellness-type itineraries for their customers. And why would you want to do this? The response: people want to have a life changing experience. And for married couples, it's a whole new way to connect with your partner, purveyors of the new vacation style attest. Marketing and research firm Ypartnership said its latest survey of affluent travelers showed 30 percent of respondents named yoga as their favorite spa program or service. Massage was the most popular with 65 percent. Well, duh. Regardless, next time you sit down and plan a getaway, think about the possibility of changing your life with your spouse. Just make sure you don't overextend your yoga posses and come home broken.

Labels: advice, health, holidays, resource, travel

No More Needles

Finally those of us who are needle-phobic can now sleep at night and not have to fret about getting that shot from the Doctor. Scientists are currently developing a patch that can deliver most medicines without inflicting any kind of pain. Tech giant Hewlett Packard announced Tuesday that in has employed their ink jet cartridge technology that will administer drugs through the skin in a controlled and painless way. Often patches do not administer drugs properly because the skin acts as a natural barrier. The patch will have tiny needles attached to it, but they are so small they would barely penetrate the skin. Sounds good to us!

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No More Needles

Finally those of us who are needle-phobic can now sleep at night and not have to fret about getting that shot from the Doctor. Scientists are currently developing a patch that can deliver most medicines without inflicting any kind of pain. Tech giant Hewlett Packard announced Tuesday that in has employed their ink jet cartridge technology that will administer drugs through the skin in a controlled and painless way. Often patches do not administer drugs properly because the skin acts as a natural barrier. The patch will have tiny needles attached to it, but they are so small they would barely penetrate the skin. Sounds good to us!

Labels: advice, health, news, resource

No More Needles

Finally those of us who are needle-phobic can now sleep at night and not have to fret about getting that shot from the Doctor. Scientists are currently developing a patch that can deliver most medicines without inflicting any kind of pain. Tech giant Hewlett Packard announced Tuesday that in has employed their ink jet cartridge technology that will administer drugs through the skin in a controlled and painless way. Often patches do not administer drugs properly because the skin acts as a natural barrier. The patch will have tiny needles attached to it, but they are so small they would barely penetrate the skin. Sounds good to us!

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Keep Track of the Recalls

If you're a parent you probably have heard about all the recalls. As a matter of fact, Mattel announced their third recall for another 850,000 toys! Wowza. If you want to stay up-to-date on all on all newly announced toxic toys in your kids playroom, check out Recall.gov. Perhaps the best part about this website is that you can sign up for e-mail alerts, letting you know when your beef is bad or your Barbie accessories may be harmful to put in your mouth. I know just what you want--more e-mail!

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Keep Track of the Recalls

If you're a parent you probably have heard about all the recalls. As a matter of fact, Mattel announced their third recall for another 850,000 toys! Wowza. If you want to stay up-to-date on all on all newly announced toxic toys in your kids playroom, check out Recall.gov. Perhaps the best part about this website is that you can sign up for e-mail alerts, letting you know when your beef is bad or your Barbie accessories may be harmful to put in your mouth. I know just what you want--more e-mail!

Labels: news, parenting, resource

Keep Track of the Recalls

If you're a parent you probably have heard about all the recalls. As a matter of fact, Mattel announced their third recall for another 850,000 toys! Wowza. If you want to stay up-to-date on all on all newly announced toxic toys in your kids playroom, check out Recall.gov. Perhaps the best part about this website is that you can sign up for e-mail alerts, letting you know when your beef is bad or your Barbie accessories may be harmful to put in your mouth. I know just what you want--more e-mail!

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Vow Renewal: A Good Idea?

In this months issue of Esquire magazine, Kendall Hamilton lets you in on how to "Renew Your Vows (Without Renewing Your Vows)." Although Hamilton says this is something you should not put your friends through, relating it as "a spectacle," "tacky," and how it "tends to breed resentment," he does suggest other ways a couple can renew their vows without the above said descriptions. One suggestion is "Going Full-Martha," as in Martha Stewart, on an anniversary party. Another point Hamilton makes is that a spouse suggesting a vow-renewal may mean it could be a scapegoat for some larger problem, saying that a sappy ceremony would be nothing more than a Band-Aid anyway. Hamilton suggests that a couple might "propose, instead, a retreat... Be open. Listen. Talk. Have some fun together. And when you get back, keep working on things."

All good advice in our book!

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Vow Renewal: A Good Idea?

In this months issue of Esquire magazine, Kendall Hamilton lets you in on how to "Renew Your Vows (Without Renewing Your Vows)." Although Hamilton says this is something you should not put your friends through, relating it as "a spectacle," "tacky," and how it "tends to breed resentment," he does suggest other ways a couple can renew their vows without the above said descriptions. One suggestion is "Going Full-Martha," as in Martha Stewart, on an anniversary party. Another point Hamilton makes is that a spouse suggesting a vow-renewal may mean it could be a scapegoat for some larger problem, saying that a sappy ceremony would be nothing more than a Band-Aid anyway. Hamilton suggests that a couple might "propose, instead, a retreat... Be open. Listen. Talk. Have some fun together. And when you get back, keep working on things."

All good advice in our book!

Labels: advice, resource

Vow Renewal: A Good Idea?

In this months issue of Esquire magazine, Kendall Hamilton lets you in on how to "Renew Your Vows (Without Renewing Your Vows)." Although Hamilton says this is something you should not put your friends through, relating it as "a spectacle," "tacky," and how it "tends to breed resentment," he does suggest other ways a couple can renew their vows without the above said descriptions. One suggestion is "Going Full-Martha," as in Martha Stewart, on an anniversary party. Another point Hamilton makes is that a spouse suggesting a vow-renewal may mean it could be a scapegoat for some larger problem, saying that a sappy ceremony would be nothing more than a Band-Aid anyway. Hamilton suggests that a couple might "propose, instead, a retreat... Be open. Listen. Talk. Have some fun together. And when you get back, keep working on things."

All good advice in our book!

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Got Health?

Although 0.5 percent doesn't seem like much of an increase in the wrong direction, the US Census Bureau is reporting this 0.5 percent is what 47 million Americans are living without--health insurance. Moreover, the number of children under the age of 18 has increased 0.8 percent in 2006 generating an unhealthy number of 8.7 million.

And to no surprise, there's been a strong reaction to the report with presidential elections on the horizon; the New York Times has described it as a "presidential gold mine." Though the census report mentions some good things like household median incomes rising and poverty rates slowly declining, President Bush concedes it will be a challenge to reduce the number of Americans living without health insurance. So, what's the answer? Bush suggests Congress make health insurance more affordable rather than bring more people into the government scheme, saying he will veto any bill that warrants such an action.

Feel the same?

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Got Health?

Although 0.5 percent doesn't seem like much of an increase in the wrong direction, the US Census Bureau is reporting this 0.5 percent is what 47 million Americans are living without--health insurance. Moreover, the number of children under the age of 18 has increased 0.8 percent in 2006 generating an unhealthy number of 8.7 million.

And to no surprise, there's been a strong reaction to the report with presidential elections on the horizon; the New York Times has described it as a "presidential gold mine." Though the census report mentions some good things like household median incomes rising and poverty rates slowly declining, President Bush concedes it will be a challenge to reduce the number of Americans living without health insurance. So, what's the answer? Bush suggests Congress make health insurance more affordable rather than bring more people into the government scheme, saying he will veto any bill that warrants such an action.

Feel the same?

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Got Health?

Although 0.5 percent doesn't seem like much of an increase in the wrong direction, the US Census Bureau is reporting this 0.5 percent is what 47 million Americans are living without--health insurance. Moreover, the number of children under the age of 18 has increased 0.8 percent in 2006 generating an unhealthy number of 8.7 million.

And to no surprise, there's been a strong reaction to the report with presidential elections on the horizon; the New York Times has described it as a "presidential gold mine." Though the census report mentions some good things like household median incomes rising and poverty rates slowly declining, President Bush concedes it will be a challenge to reduce the number of Americans living without health insurance. So, what's the answer? Bush suggests Congress make health insurance more affordable rather than bring more people into the government scheme, saying he will veto any bill that warrants such an action.

Feel the same?

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Could "Marriage" Be Abolished In California?

On Monday, a pro-family group charged that a future legislature could abolish marriage as we know it, removing the rights now enjoyed by a husband and wife. Say what? The raised eyes came when legal briefs were submitted to the California Supreme Court regarding same-sex marriage. Attorney General Jerry Brown stated that, "The words 'marry' and 'marriage' have no essential constitutional significance under the California Constitution. Thus, the legislature could change the name of the legal relationship now known as 'marriage' to some other name without any constitutional impediment." What does this mean? According to Governor Arnold Schwarzenegger, "Any of the statutory rights and obligations that are afforded to married couples in California could be abrogated or eliminated by the legislature or the electorate for any rational legislative purpose." But there is hope. Randy Thomasson, an organizer of VoteYesMarriage.com and the group's California Marriage Amendment, has call for support in getting the marriage amendment on the 2008 ballot.

In a news release Thomasson wrote, "This is proof positive that the VoteYesMarriage.com initiative, which will prevent marriage from being abolished and prevent marriage rights from being eliminated, is absolutely needed to protect the sacred institution of marriage from activist judges and liberal politicians."

Unbelievable!

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Could "Marriage" Be Abolished In California?

On Monday, a pro-family group charged that a future legislature could abolish marriage as we know it, removing the rights now enjoyed by a husband and wife. Say what? The raised eyes came when legal briefs were submitted to the California Supreme Court regarding same-sex marriage. Attorney General Jerry Brown stated that, "The words 'marry' and 'marriage' have no essential constitutional significance under the California Constitution. Thus, the legislature could change the name of the legal relationship now known as 'marriage' to some other name without any constitutional impediment." What does this mean? According to Governor Arnold Schwarzenegger, "Any of the statutory rights and obligations that are afforded to married couples in California could be abrogated or eliminated by the legislature or the electorate for any rational legislative purpose." But there is hope. Randy Thomasson, an organizer of VoteYesMarriage.com and the group's California Marriage Amendment, has call for support in getting the marriage amendment on the 2008 ballot.

In a news release Thomasson wrote, "This is proof positive that the VoteYesMarriage.com initiative, which will prevent marriage from being abolished and prevent marriage rights from being eliminated, is absolutely needed to protect the sacred institution of marriage from activist judges and liberal politicians."

Unbelievable!

Labels: news, resource

Could "Marriage" Be Abolished In California?

On Monday, a pro-family group charged that a future legislature could abolish marriage as we know it, removing the rights now enjoyed by a husband and wife. Say what? The raised eyes came when legal briefs were submitted to the California Supreme Court regarding same-sex marriage. Attorney General Jerry Brown stated that, "The words 'marry' and 'marriage' have no essential constitutional significance under the California Constitution. Thus, the legislature could change the name of the legal relationship now known as 'marriage' to some other name without any constitutional impediment." What does this mean? According to Governor Arnold Schwarzenegger, "Any of the statutory rights and obligations that are afforded to married couples in California could be abrogated or eliminated by the legislature or the electorate for any rational legislative purpose." But there is hope. Randy Thomasson, an organizer of VoteYesMarriage.com and the group's California Marriage Amendment, has call for support in getting the marriage amendment on the 2008 ballot.

In a news release Thomasson wrote, "This is proof positive that the VoteYesMarriage.com initiative, which will prevent marriage from being abolished and prevent marriage rights from being eliminated, is absolutely needed to protect the sacred institution of marriage from activist judges and liberal politicians."

Unbelievable!

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How Men Build Happy Marriages

Our very own Dr. Scott Haltzman appeared on a Fox morning news program to discuss his book and offer tips on how men can help build a happy marriage. The video is a few minutes long and well worth it. Click here to watch the video.

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How Men Build Happy Marriages

Our very own Dr. Scott Haltzman appeared on a Fox morning news program to discuss his book and offer tips on how men can help build a happy marriage. The video is a few minutes long and well worth it. Click here to watch the video.

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How Men Build Happy Marriages

Our very own Dr. Scott Haltzman appeared on a Fox morning news program to discuss his book and offer tips on how men can help build a happy marriage. The video is a few minutes long and well worth it. Click here to watch the video.

Labels: advice, celebrity, resource

Greatest Movie of All Time

The American Film Institute put out their list of the 100 greatest films of all time and once again, Citizen Kane is No. 1. Creeping up into the No. 2 spot is The Godfather, and Casablanca rounds out the top three. The newest movie in the top 20 is Schindler's List (1993) at No. 8. The newest movie on the list is The Lord of the Rings at No. 50.

What's your favorite movie? Do you agree with this list? See the whole list by clicking here. Go to our message boards to talk about it. Click here.

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Greatest Movie of All Time

The American Film Institute put out their list of the 100 greatest films of all time and once again, Citizen Kane is No. 1. Creeping up into the No. 2 spot is The Godfather, and Casablanca rounds out the top three. The newest movie in the top 20 is Schindler's List (1993) at No. 8. The newest movie on the list is The Lord of the Rings at No. 50.

What's your favorite movie? Do you agree with this list? See the whole list by clicking here. Go to our message boards to talk about it. Click here.

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Greatest Movie of All Time

The American Film Institute put out their list of the 100 greatest films of all time and once again, Citizen Kane is No. 1. Creeping up into the No. 2 spot is The Godfather, and Casablanca rounds out the top three. The newest movie in the top 20 is Schindler's List (1993) at No. 8. The newest movie on the list is The Lord of the Rings at No. 50.

What's your favorite movie? Do you agree with this list? See the whole list by clicking here. Go to our message boards to talk about it. Click here.

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Committed Men and Woman Find Sex Equally Appealing

An April issue of the journal Sex Roles here found that although the bachelor may have sex on his mind more than his single female counterpart both men and women, in committed relationships, share very similar attitudes when it comes to getting it on. The study, conducted by Tom Tiegs and colleagues surveyed 208 women and 131 men regarding their sexual behaviors and attitudes in four categories with questions ranging from "strongly disagree" to "strongly agree." These are the kind of studies that get us excited. For more, visit our new content partner yahoo.com here.

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Committed Men and Woman Find Sex Equally Appealing

An April issue of the journal Sex Roles here found that although the bachelor may have sex on his mind more than his single female counterpart both men and women, in committed relationships, share very similar attitudes when it comes to getting it on. The study, conducted by Tom Tiegs and colleagues surveyed 208 women and 131 men regarding their sexual behaviors and attitudes in four categories with questions ranging from "strongly disagree" to "strongly agree." These are the kind of studies that get us excited. For more, visit our new content partner yahoo.com here.

Labels: health, news, resource

Committed Men and Woman Find Sex Equally Appealing

An April issue of the journal Sex Roles here found that although the bachelor may have sex on his mind more than his single female counterpart both men and women, in committed relationships, share very similar attitudes when it comes to getting it on. The study, conducted by Tom Tiegs and colleagues surveyed 208 women and 131 men regarding their sexual behaviors and attitudes in four categories with questions ranging from "strongly disagree" to "strongly agree." These are the kind of studies that get us excited. For more, visit our new content partner yahoo.com here.

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Healthcare Rankings By State

The 5 lowest ranked states for healthcare also have twice as many premature deaths occur than the top 5 states. Do you know where you state ranks? A premature death is defined as a death before the age of 75 that could have been prevented or prolonged with proper care, according to this article from USA Today. Unfortunately for the South, all bottom 5 states call it home including, South Carolina, Tennessee, Arkansas, Louisiana and Mississippi.

The number one state? Hawaii. As if life wasn't good enough living on the rainbow state, they also have the best waves and healthcare. To get the full list of states ranked, click here.

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Healthcare Rankings By State

The 5 lowest ranked states for healthcare also have twice as many premature deaths occur than the top 5 states. Do you know where you state ranks? A premature death is defined as a death before the age of 75 that could have been prevented or prolonged with proper care, according to this article from USA Today. Unfortunately for the South, all bottom 5 states call it home including, South Carolina, Tennessee, Arkansas, Louisiana and Mississippi.

The number one state? Hawaii. As if life wasn't good enough living on the rainbow state, they also have the best waves and healthcare. To get the full list of states ranked, click here.

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Healthcare Rankings By State

The 5 lowest ranked states for healthcare also have twice as many premature deaths occur than the top 5 states. Do you know where you state ranks? A premature death is defined as a death before the age of 75 that could have been prevented or prolonged with proper care, according to this article from USA Today. Unfortunately for the South, all bottom 5 states call it home including, South Carolina, Tennessee, Arkansas, Louisiana and Mississippi.

The number one state? Hawaii. As if life wasn't good enough living on the rainbow state, they also have the best waves and healthcare. To get the full list of states ranked, click here.

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Warning Signs of a Troubled Marriage

We're here to help. So are the folks over at About.com have put together a bullet point list of warning signs your marriage may be in trouble. There final bit of advice may be the most important: Don't wait to seek professional help! Without further adieu here's some of the list:
- The two of you bicker a great deal.

- You are withdrawing from one another.

- You don't fight fair.

- You no longer have fun together.

- You have nothing nice to say to one another.

- You don't talk with one another about your problems.

- You don't respect one another.

- You can't agree on goals and values.

There's more on their website. Click here

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Warning Signs of a Troubled Marriage

We're here to help. So are the folks over at About.com have put together a bullet point list of warning signs your marriage may be in trouble. There final bit of advice may be the most important: Don't wait to seek professional help! Without further adieu here's some of the list:
- The two of you bicker a great deal.

- You are withdrawing from one another.

- You don't fight fair.

- You no longer have fun together.

- You have nothing nice to say to one another.

- You don't talk with one another about your problems.

- You don't respect one another.

- You can't agree on goals and values.

There's more on their website. Click here

Labels: advice, resource

Warning Signs of a Troubled Marriage

We're here to help. So are the folks over at About.com have put together a bullet point list of warning signs your marriage may be in trouble. There final bit of advice may be the most important: Don't wait to seek professional help! Without further adieu here's some of the list:
- The two of you bicker a great deal.

- You are withdrawing from one another.

- You don't fight fair.

- You no longer have fun together.

- You have nothing nice to say to one another.

- You don't talk with one another about your problems.

- You don't respect one another.

- You can't agree on goals and values.

There's more on their website. Click here

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Depression Is Less With Marriage

A new study out of Ohio State University says that individuals who are depressed prior to getting married, report that their depression lessens after they're married. The study, published in the Journal of Health and Social Behavior says that depressed people report less marital happiness and more marital conflict, which is an obvious indication that marriage isn't the end all be all solution for depression, but it does seem to help according to these findings.

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Depression Is Less With Marriage

A new study out of Ohio State University says that individuals who are depressed prior to getting married, report that their depression lessens after they're married. The study, published in the Journal of Health and Social Behavior says that depressed people report less marital happiness and more marital conflict, which is an obvious indication that marriage isn't the end all be all solution for depression, but it does seem to help according to these findings.

Labels: health, news, resource

Depression Is Less With Marriage

A new study out of Ohio State University says that individuals who are depressed prior to getting married, report that their depression lessens after they're married. The study, published in the Journal of Health and Social Behavior says that depressed people report less marital happiness and more marital conflict, which is an obvious indication that marriage isn't the end all be all solution for depression, but it does seem to help according to these findings.

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Project Everlasting

Matthew Boggs, whose parents divorced, was jaded about marriage. But he noticed his grandmother and grandfather, who had been married for 63 years, where still madly in love. To find out what was the secret to a long and happy marriage, Boggs and his friend, Jason Miller, traveled 12,000 miles around the U.S. to talk to what they call the "Marriage Masters," couples who have been married 40 years or more. In their new book, "Project Everylasting," Boggs and Miller share advice from the happy couples.

This article from iVilliage goes on to give 7 tips from the authors including: There's no such thing as a perfect marriage, only perfect moments, Never Stop Dating, The Discipline of Respect and more. What's your secret to marriage? Click here to sound off on our message board.

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Project Everlasting

Matthew Boggs, whose parents divorced, was jaded about marriage. But he noticed his grandmother and grandfather, who had been married for 63 years, where still madly in love. To find out what was the secret to a long and happy marriage, Boggs and his friend, Jason Miller, traveled 12,000 miles around the U.S. to talk to what they call the "Marriage Masters," couples who have been married 40 years or more. In their new book, "Project Everylasting," Boggs and Miller share advice from the happy couples.

This article from iVilliage goes on to give 7 tips from the authors including: There's no such thing as a perfect marriage, only perfect moments, Never Stop Dating, The Discipline of Respect and more. What's your secret to marriage? Click here to sound off on our message board.

Labels: advice, entertainment, resource

Project Everlasting

Matthew Boggs, whose parents divorced, was jaded about marriage. But he noticed his grandmother and grandfather, who had been married for 63 years, where still madly in love. To find out what was the secret to a long and happy marriage, Boggs and his friend, Jason Miller, traveled 12,000 miles around the U.S. to talk to what they call the "Marriage Masters," couples who have been married 40 years or more. In their new book, "Project Everylasting," Boggs and Miller share advice from the happy couples.

This article from iVilliage goes on to give 7 tips from the authors including: There's no such thing as a perfect marriage, only perfect moments, Never Stop Dating, The Discipline of Respect and more. What's your secret to marriage? Click here to sound off on our message board.

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Invest In Your Wife

If you were worth billions of dollars, would you give your wife a couple million to help her start a business? Sergey Brin, a co-founder of Google has married Anne Wojcicki and according to SEC filings invested $3.9 million in her business 23andMe. 23andMe's website says by encouraging individuals to learn about their own genetic information, the company will create a common, standardized resource that has the potential to accelerate drug discovery and bring personalized medicine to the public. Sounds like a worthwile cause for the new, ultimate power couple! Click here to read the article in NY Times.

Labels: money, news, resource, romance

Invest In Your Wife

If you were worth billions of dollars, would you give your wife a couple million to help her start a business? Sergey Brin, a co-founder of Google has married Anne Wojcicki and according to SEC filings invested $3.9 million in her business 23andMe. 23andMe's website says by encouraging individuals to learn about their own genetic information, the company will create a common, standardized resource that has the potential to accelerate drug discovery and bring personalized medicine to the public. Sounds like a worthwile cause for the new, ultimate power couple! Click here to read the article in NY Times.

Labels: money, news, resource, romance

Invest In Your Wife

If you were worth billions of dollars, would you give your wife a couple million to help her start a business? Sergey Brin, a co-founder of Google has married Anne Wojcicki and according to SEC filings invested $3.9 million in her business 23andMe. 23andMe's website says by encouraging individuals to learn about their own genetic information, the company will create a common, standardized resource that has the potential to accelerate drug discovery and bring personalized medicine to the public. Sounds like a worthwile cause for the new, ultimate power couple! Click here to read the article in NY Times.

Labels: money, news, resource, romance

A Really Cool Gift Finder

Not sure what to get your husband or wife? Check out this really cool gift finder by Imagini. All you have to do is answer a few simple questions by clicking on the appropriate picture. For example, it will ask you what their house most looks like and all you have to do is click on the picture that is most like your house. It goes on to ask how they like to spend their time, what does freedom look like, etc. After about 10 questions it gives you a gift guide that's pretty darn accurate. It's also fun to do one for yourself and then have your spouse do one. See who knows you better. Click here to try it.

Labels: advice, entertainment, gadget, resource

A Really Cool Gift Finder

Not sure what to get your husband or wife? Check out this really cool gift finder by Imagini. All you have to do is answer a few simple questions by clicking on the appropriate picture. For example, it will ask you what their house most looks like and all you have to do is click on the picture that is most like your house. It goes on to ask how they like to spend their time, what does freedom look like, etc. After about 10 questions it gives you a gift guide that's pretty darn accurate. It's also fun to do one for yourself and then have your spouse do one. See who knows you better. Click here to try it.

Labels: advice, entertainment, gadget, resource

A Really Cool Gift Finder

Not sure what to get your husband or wife? Check out this really cool gift finder by Imagini. All you have to do is answer a few simple questions by clicking on the appropriate picture. For example, it will ask you what their house most looks like and all you have to do is click on the picture that is most like your house. It goes on to ask how they like to spend their time, what does freedom look like, etc. After about 10 questions it gives you a gift guide that's pretty darn accurate. It's also fun to do one for yourself and then have your spouse do one. See who knows you better. Click here to try it.

Labels: advice, entertainment, gadget, resource

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Sex Toy Recycling Program

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Marriage Classes in Alabama

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Friday, September 05, 2008

Marriage and Prayer Survey

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Wednesday, August 13, 2008

Married Couples Still Healthiest

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Wednesday, July 02, 2008

Mindfulness and the Art of Choice

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Wednesday, June 25, 2008

Marriage Counseling Online

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Monday, April 21, 2008

Green Resources

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Sunday, March 02, 2008

Interview with "Here Come the Newlyweds" host and more

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Wednesday, February 06, 2008

Best Cities for Couples

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Tuesday, January 22, 2008

What do Women (and Men) Experience After an Abortion?

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Tuesday, October 23, 2007

Put Some Broccoli On

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Wednesday, October 10, 2007

Study Says Negativity In Marriage May Cause Heart Disease

Study Says Negativity In Marriage May Cause Heart Disease

Study Says Negativity In Marriage May Cause Heart Disease

Monday, October 08, 2007

Coming Clean With Your Partner

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Thursday, October 04, 2007

Tips Before Tying the Knot

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Thursday, September 13, 2007

New Twist on Vacations

New Twist on Vacations

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Tuesday, September 11, 2007

No More Needles