How Couples Can Stop Fighting About Money
5 tips to stay on top of your financials and reduce the stress as a couple.

Are you constantly worried about all the bickering and blaming when it comes to money within your relationship? Well, you are not alone. Follow these simple tips and your marriage can be improved when it comes to finances within your family dynamic.

1.†Improve communication. One of the biggest reasons why couples have financial unrest is lack of communication. One of the best ways to combat this is to set up a "financial date night." In a relaxed environment, open communication about the familyís finances. Try and take the emotion out of the discussion and focus more on the tangible, concrete steps the relationship can do to get the financial security you both desire.

2. Don't wait.†Most of the time many couples wait too long to combat their financial woes when they are already in trouble. They may already be in debt, already overspending on a monthly basis, or need to decide on matters relating to the children, like how are we going to get our little one through college. Build a plan together. I call it the "One-Pager." Write down both partnersí ideas on a piece of paper which acts as a blue print to where your spending will be going (this can be both short term and longer term needs). Most people know where their money comes in from, but have a difficult time tracking their expenses. Once the tracking of expenses takes place you may soon realize that expenses come down and you can begin saving your surplus for your reserve funds or future investments for retirement.

3. Open up.†Financial transparency is critical in the success of reducing the fighting about money. Couples should not hide from each other their financial spending habits. Be forthright on spending habits. Usually an event happens that triggers something at a critical time. That is the best opportunity to seek a qualified financial advisor or Certified Financial Planner that will help you through this time.

4. Flex your muscles. Each partner should play to each otherís strengths. One partner may be better with details and so budgeting may be their strength. The other may be better with long-term outlooks like investments and portfolios. Play to what you do best within the relationship.

5.†Focus on the important things in life. Every married couple wants to be happy and build a rich life together. Each couple has dreams and goals that motivate each other to provide for one another. With proper planning and advice, the family can achieve exactly what they are set out to do while at the same time reducing their stress and emotional baggage when it comes to money.

Jordan†Niefeld, CPA, CFP believes everyone has a right to achieve a secure and prosperous financial future so that their time can be spent with family, friends, and the important things in life. He is very passionate about guiding individuals toward their ultimate life goals in a very comprehensive and through manner while utilizing a 4 step process (Discover, Diagnose, Design & Deliver) that separates him from the rest.

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