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4 ways to add a chill to your hot summer sex life.
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Popsicles are more than just a summer snack, they can be used in the bedroom too. |
Use an ice cube to trace the curves of your partner’s body. Draw figure eight’s around her nipples or around the base of his member. Immediately replace the cold sensation with your warm tongue as you trace the area you just covered. Make sure you don’t let the ice linger too long over one area though—you want to heighten feeling, not numb the skin.
Pop a mint. The menthol creates a tingling sensation that enhances your normal oral sex routine. Suck on a mint until your entire mouth is chilly and start licking or sucking away. Try keeping the mint on your tongue as you gently rub it up and down his shaft for an added sensation or pull away and blow on her to send extra shivers down her spine. In too much of a sexual frenzy to wait for the mint to melt? For an instant menthol fix, let a mint breath strip dissolve on your tongue.
Make your mouth cold as ice by sucking on a popsicle. For an added sensation, chew it slightly and keep the slush in your mouth as you give your man oral. The feeling of the soft slush will drive him wild as it melts in your mouth. As he gets close to orgasm, have a drink of hot water or tea and immediately replace the cold sensation with your warm mouth to heighten his pleasure.
Give her a sensual massage with frozen marbles. Gently roll one over the delicate and extra sensitive contours between her thighs. When the marble has warmed, go back over the same spots with your tongue as lightly as you can. It won’t be long before the extra soft sensations will drive her into demanding something harder.
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